We’re getting closer to our move date, and we’re going through our stuff but also thinking about (clinging to?) the things we’ll miss. I say “we” but maybe it’s just me doing the clinging.
I find it funny that when I left the U.S., I was stockpiling American things I feared I wouldn’t be able to get in Germany: Trader Joe’s salsa, children’s OTC medications, inexpensive winter gear. Now I have the same frantic hoarding tendencies but for German things, as if somehow I can take my memories with me only if I find enough items to hold them in.
We’re really trying to get rid of things, not collect things, but if I could stockpile all I wanted, here’s a list of some favorites:
- Alnatura dark chocolate from DM—best cheap chocolate ever
- Ritter Sport dark chocolate with hazelnuts (yes, they do have it in the U.S. but I hear it’s not the same)
- Weleda bath and beauty products
- Alnatura lemongrass soap
- Whole grain spelt (dinkel) bread
- Ready-to-eat mango lassis from the refrigerator aisle
- Fresh apricots (they just don’t grow these in the southeastern US, and the ones you can get from California are mushy by the time they get to you)
- Fleur de sel—best salt ever—yeah, it’s French, but it’s easy to get here
- Wine—goes without saying
- Cheap vintage linens from the thrift store (okay, I may have collected a few of these, but reports have been widely exaggerated)
- Nutella collectible football glasses
- Wooden toys—any German toys, really
- Absolutely everything from the Waldorf basar
- Kids’ rain pants
- Cheese—so cheap and delicious here—a mozza ball costs as little as, I kid you not, 50 cents!
- Rooibos caramel tea
- Burda Style magazine—the awesomest sewing mag ever
- Homeopathic German medicine—oh yeah! It really works.
- The unbelievably thick walls, high ceilings, and beautiful doors of our apartment
- Chocolate croissants baked just a few steps from our flat
But most of all I’d like to stockpile the things that couldn’t be packed up, even if we had the space:
- Bike rides through the forest
- Coffee and running and lunch dates with friends
- Sunny afternoons in the kindergarten garden
- The smell of freshly baked bread from the downstairs bakery
- Kind neighbors
- My kids’ knowledge of German
For the last two plus years I’ve sought out English reading material wherever I could, and now suddenly I’m desperate to have some German books for the kids. I just got Richard Scarry’s Mein allerschönstes Wörterbuch (it’s similar to his other books but with German and English labels). Also ordered Das grosse Liederbuch (The Big Song Book, illustrated by Tomi Ungerer) on the advice of a friend, hoping we might be able to preserve some of the folk songs our son has learned in German kindergarten.
The probability of him losing his near-native accent is the thought that stings the most.
But I won’t dwell on that now. Okay, off to get some errands done and hopefully, just a tiny bit more writing before the clock strikes midnight. Have a good Monday.